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comments: true
title: "Burning bridges"
category: [english]
tags: [english]
---
I finally did it, removed my access to channels I will never be on again
and here I tell it to everyone and why I left the channels.
```
2015-09-17 09:00:53+0300 -- ChanServ: Flags -AVeiortv were set on Mikaela in ##not-a-honeypot.
2015-09-17 09:00:53+0300 -- ChanServ: Flags -Aeiorstv were set on Mikaela in #ircassholes.
2015-09-17 09:00:55+0300 -- ChanServ: Flags -ASeiortv were set on Mikaela in #limnoria.
2015-09-17 09:00:56+0300 -- ChanServ: Flags -RSefiorstv were set on Mikaela in #limnoria-bots.
2015-09-17 09:00:57+0300 -- ChanServ: Flags -AFORVefiorstv were set on Mikaela in #limnoria-ops.
2015-09-17 09:00:58+0300 -- ChanServ: Flags -AFRefiorstv were set on Mikaela in #limnoria-verbose.
2015-09-17 09:00:59+0300 -- ChanServ: Flags -V were set on Mikaela in #suicidewatch.
2015-09-17 09:01:00+0300 -- ChanServ: Flags -V were set on Mikaela in #sw-defocus.
2015-09-17 09:01:02+0300 -- ChanServ: Flags -Vo were set on Mikaela in ##matrixiumn.
2015-09-17 09:01:03+0300 -- ChanServ: Flags -AVi were set on Mikaela in ##asexuality.
```
And short stories about what these channels are:
* ##not-a-honeypot and #limnoria are detailed in my two other blogposts,
basically they have issues with either women or trans people and one had
my ex.
* https://mikaela.info/english/2015/03/25/leaving-bots-life.html
* https://mikaela.info/english/2015/05/18/life-bot-background.html
* #ircassholes is dead and I haven't been in speaking terms with the
founder in a long time.
* #suicidewatch and #sw-defocus I was on a long time and stayed there
after coming out in hope I could help other trans/autism spectrum
people, but being there was too much for me and I ended up leaving at
some point. I also have issue of feeling like I don't deserve to be
there.
* ##matrixiumn, I think we are still in speaking terms, but that channel
had discussions I didn't like so much.
* ##asexuality, here I was co-founder until someone who believes they can
decide identities of other people for them and know them better than the
people by themselves came and after that my flags were decreased to
those of regular user without any kind of explanation no matter how much
I asked. I decided that I won't be bullied there and I have substituted
this with IRL peer support, [HeSeta's Asexual evenings (in Finnish)](http://www.heseta.fi/aseksuaalisuudesta). There is also still ##abgilpqt+
* *add related link here if it gets out of _drafts*