From 57b220704700d29329661de681704e2540a631ff Mon Sep 17 00:00:00 2001 From: Mikaela Suomalainen Date: Thu, 17 Sep 2015 09:28:42 +0300 Subject: [PATCH] Blog: burning bridges --- _posts/2015-09-17-burning-bridges.md | 46 ++++++++++++++++++++++++++++ 1 file changed, 46 insertions(+) create mode 100644 _posts/2015-09-17-burning-bridges.md diff --git a/_posts/2015-09-17-burning-bridges.md b/_posts/2015-09-17-burning-bridges.md new file mode 100644 index 0000000..cab180e --- /dev/null +++ b/_posts/2015-09-17-burning-bridges.md @@ -0,0 +1,46 @@ +--- +layout: post +comments: true +title: "Burning bridges" +category: [english] +tags: [english] +--- + +I finally did it, removed my access to channels I will never be on again +and here I tell it to everyone and why I left the channels. + +``` +2015-09-17 09:00:53+0300 -- ChanServ: Flags -AVeiortv were set on Mikaela in ##not-a-honeypot. +2015-09-17 09:00:53+0300 -- ChanServ: Flags -Aeiorstv were set on Mikaela in #ircassholes. +2015-09-17 09:00:55+0300 -- ChanServ: Flags -ASeiortv were set on Mikaela in #limnoria. +2015-09-17 09:00:56+0300 -- ChanServ: Flags -RSefiorstv were set on Mikaela in #limnoria-bots. +2015-09-17 09:00:57+0300 -- ChanServ: Flags -AFORVefiorstv were set on Mikaela in #limnoria-ops. +2015-09-17 09:00:58+0300 -- ChanServ: Flags -AFRefiorstv were set on Mikaela in #limnoria-verbose. +2015-09-17 09:00:59+0300 -- ChanServ: Flags -V were set on Mikaela in #suicidewatch. +2015-09-17 09:01:00+0300 -- ChanServ: Flags -V were set on Mikaela in #sw-defocus. +2015-09-17 09:01:02+0300 -- ChanServ: Flags -Vo were set on Mikaela in ##matrixiumn. +2015-09-17 09:01:03+0300 -- ChanServ: Flags -AVi were set on Mikaela in ##asexuality. +``` + +And short stories about what these channels are: +* ##not-a-honeypot and #limnoria are detailed in my two other blogposts, +basically they have issues with either women or trans people and one had +my ex. + * https://mikaela.info/english/2015/03/25/leaving-bots-life.html + * https://mikaela.info/english/2015/05/18/life-bot-background.html +* #ircassholes is dead and I haven't been in speaking terms with the + founder in a long time. +* #suicidewatch and #sw-defocus I was on a long time and stayed there + after coming out in hope I could help other trans/autism spectrum + people, but being there was too much for me and I ended up leaving at + some point. I also have issue of feeling like I don't deserve to be + there. +* ##matrixiumn, I think we are still in speaking terms, but that channel + had discussions I didn't like so much. +* ##asexuality, here I was co-founder until someone who believes they can + decide identities of other people for them and know them better than the + people by themselves came and after that my flags were decreased to + those of regular user without any kind of explanation no matter how much + I asked. I decided that I won't be bullied there and I have substituted + this with IRL peer support, [HeSeta's Asexual evenings (in Finnish)](http://www.heseta.fi/aseksuaalisuudesta). There is also still ##abgilpqt+ + * *add related link here if it gets out of _drafts*