discuss: bumb Contributor Covenant from 2.0 to 2.1

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-I have a public instant messaging chatroom for comments to my
+I have multiple instant messaging chatrooms.
-blog and other things I do. They are connected together by [Matterbridge](https://github.com/42wim/matterbridge/#matterbridge).
 
-As [Code of Conduct, Contributor Covenant applies](https://www.contributor-covenant.org/version/2/0/code_of_conduct/).<br>
+- [The ones listed below](#the-links) are for comments to my blog, this website in general, my FOSS <s>spam</s> activity and a contact point for reaching me in general for not so private matters. They are connected together by [Matterbridge](https://github.com/42wim/matterbridge/#matterbridge).
-I don't see a reason for forking it as this community is forming around me
+- Many linking here utilize the rules listed below.
-and my website while I would have separate community for any actual Open
+- Others are simply curious about protocols, transports, relays, bridges, etc. _Why did they end up on this page when they could have ended up anywhere else?_
-Source Software project if I begun any that grew bigger. See also
+
-[my Matrix page on etiquette](/matrix/index.html#is-there-any-kind-of-matrix-etiquette-i-should-know-about).
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+- [Rules](#rules)
+- [Languages](#languages)
+- [The links](#the-links)
+- [A couple of words on protocols](#a-couple-of-words-on-protocols)
+- [And on transports, relays and bridges](#and-on-transports-relays-and-bridges)
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+## Rules
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+[Contributor Covenant 2.1](https://www.contributor-covenant.org/version/2/1/code_of_conduct/) is the primary Code of Conduct here (which isn't forked due to this community forming around me and my website. Any project growing bigger would have its own), but we do have a couple of other rules too:
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+- Don't send private messages without asking for a permission first unless your message is purely moderation related.
+  - Please include your business in your first message and not only greeting. See [nohello.net](https://nohello.net) for more about that.
+- Don't share personal affairs of other people outside of the room. This includes, but isn't limited to, gender/sexual/romantic orientation questioning, plurality, religion, etc. When in doubt, assume it's private.
+  - Mind the limitations of machines and people especially in the private side. Transport encryption is not [end-to-end encryption](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/End-to-end_encryption), which can be broken by a compromised client device (including, but not limited to bot/relay/bridge) or the protocol in question may neglect to encrypt something [like Matrix does for reactions](https://github.com/matrix-org/matrix-spec/issues/660).
+- For other matters, [_Chatham House Rule_](https://www.chathamhouse.org/about-us/chatham-house-rule) applies.
+
+## Languages
 
 As for languages; English is preferred due to majority of the discussion
 participants speaking it, but Finnish and Esperanto are also fine.<br> I sadly
 don't consider myself capable of holding a discussion in other languages, but
 I do hope to be able to grow this list in the future.
 
+## The links
+
 - IRC@Etro, [`#mikaela.info`](ircs://etro.mikaela.info:6697/#mikaela.info)
   my selfhosted IRC server.
   - [(Recommended) Gamja webchat](https://irc.etro.mikaela.info/#mikaela.info)
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 users joining in the future could see messages up to one year or longer in the
 past.
 
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 ## A couple of words on protocols
 
 - _IRC_ was invented in 1988 and regardless of developing integrated message