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*This paragraph is stub -.-*
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## Ace
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## Ace & Relationship Anarchist
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I am demiromantic asexual. That means that I
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*I am asexual and possibly relationship anarchist, but it will be seen*
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* can feel romantic attraction when I have formed close emotional bond
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with someone regardless of gender.
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* don't feel sexual attraction.
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* can feel aesthetic attraction though.
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I used to define myself as poly-curios (not sure if poly or not) and
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demiromantic (the ace of diamonds playing card is their symbol shared by
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demisexuals) which means only forming romantic attraction after forming
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close emotional bond with the person
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The Ace of Diamonds (🃁) that you can see in my biography means *demiromantic asexual* or *demisexual*. Ace is asexual slang and means asexual
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*(surprise!)* and the playing cards have been adopted into different
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orientations.
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At some point I started wondering does touching and caring have to be
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limited into relationship and found
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[Romantic Asexual, or Touch Hunger?](https://abnormaldiversity.blogspot.fi/2012/12/romantic-asexual-or-touch-hunger.html?) which made sense and made
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me think that there is no romanticity, just sensuality and in the bottom
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relationship anarchy. As what is the difference between friend and partner,
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what prevents you from (consentually) cuddling or having sex with friends?
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What prevents you from loving your friends and is loving so different from
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liking and don't you sometimes use the words interchangeably? What prevents
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you from doing all the things you wish to do with your partner with some
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friend? What if love comes after you stop for especially looking for one
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or multiple people to call as partner(s)?
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*I feel I should type something more here, but I have no idea what...*
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*I am not so sure about this as I might seem in typing this, but what will
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happen will be seen when it happens.*
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## Poly-curious
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*This part will get renamed and rewritten when I find out which I am if
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ever and this doesn't read on the short bio as I consider it as irrelevant
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there. People are more likely to seek for trans/aspie/ace people than
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poly for some sort of peer support.*
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I might be poly, but I am not sure. If I am, that means that I can have
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multiple partners and that is some sort of requirement of asexuality as
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relationships between asexual and allosexual (person who feels at least
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average level of sexual attraction) are doomed to fail unless at least the
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allosexual is poly and can satisfy their sexual desires elsewhere.
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I think that if I am poly, the most suitable relationship type is possibly
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open relationship.
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Further reading:
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* [Polyamory at Wikipedia](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polyamory)
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* [Open relationship at Wikipedia](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Open_relationship)
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* [More Than Two](https://www.morethantwo.com/)
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*Does this page have worse section?*
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* [Relationship anarcy at Wikipedia](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Relationship_anarchy)
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## Feminist
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