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## Ace
## Ace & Relationship Anarchist
I am demiromantic asexual. That means that I
*I am asexual and possibly relationship anarchist, but it will be seen*
* can feel romantic attraction when I have formed close emotional bond
with someone regardless of gender.
* don't feel sexual attraction.
* can feel aesthetic attraction though.
I used to define myself as poly-curios (not sure if poly or not) and
demiromantic (the ace of diamonds playing card is their symbol shared by
demisexuals) which means only forming romantic attraction after forming
close emotional bond with the person
The Ace of Diamonds (🃁) that you can see in my biography means *demiromantic asexual* or *demisexual*. Ace is asexual slang and means asexual
*(surprise!)* and the playing cards have been adopted into different
orientations.
At some point I started wondering does touching and caring have to be
limited into relationship and found
[Romantic Asexual, or Touch Hunger?](https://abnormaldiversity.blogspot.fi/2012/12/romantic-asexual-or-touch-hunger.html?) which made sense and made
me think that there is no romanticity, just sensuality and in the bottom
relationship anarchy. As what is the difference between friend and partner,
what prevents you from (consentually) cuddling or having sex with friends?
What prevents you from loving your friends and is loving so different from
liking and don't you sometimes use the words interchangeably? What prevents
you from doing all the things you wish to do with your partner with some
friend? What if love comes after you stop for especially looking for one
or multiple people to call as partner(s)?
*I feel I should type something more here, but I have no idea what...*
*I am not so sure about this as I might seem in typing this, but what will
happen will be seen when it happens.*
## Poly-curious
*This part will get renamed and rewritten when I find out which I am if
ever and this doesn't read on the short bio as I consider it as irrelevant
there. People are more likely to seek for trans/aspie/ace people than
poly for some sort of peer support.*
I might be poly, but I am not sure. If I am, that means that I can have
multiple partners and that is some sort of requirement of asexuality as
relationships between asexual and allosexual (person who feels at least
average level of sexual attraction) are doomed to fail unless at least the
allosexual is poly and can satisfy their sexual desires elsewhere.
I think that if I am poly, the most suitable relationship type is possibly
open relationship.
Further reading:
* [Polyamory at Wikipedia](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polyamory)
* [Open relationship at Wikipedia](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Open_relationship)
* [More Than Two](https://www.morethantwo.com/)
*Does this page have worse section?*
* [Relationship anarcy at Wikipedia](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Relationship_anarchy)
## Feminist